“Little Things Mean a Lot” by Kitty Kallen



Most of the poems and reading we share have been found by the couples we have married. Some of the poems we share are the classics known to all. Many of the other poems are small gentle snapshots into the love heartland and  captures the special unique glances of two particular lovers. Many of the feelings of two unique lovers are universal, having been shared at one time or the other by countless other lovers. This gem, “Little Things Mean a Lot” by Kitty Kallen, is one of those lovely snapshots into the depth of the shared universal ordinary  displaying the profound meaning of everyday love.

Send me a kiss from across the room
Say I look nice when I’m not
Touch my hair as you pass my chair
Little things mean a lot.

Give me your arm as we cross the street
Call me at six on the dot
A line a day when you’re far away
Little things mean a lot.

Don’t have to buy me diamonds or pearls
Champagne, sables, and such
I never cared much for diamonds and pearls
‘Cause honestly, honey, Little things mean a lot.

Give me a hand when I’ve lost the way
Give me your shoulder to cry on
Whether the day is bright or gray
Give me your heart to rely on.

Send me the warmth of a secret smile
To show me you haven’t forgot
For now and forever, that’s always and ever
Little things mean a lot.

 

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From Ecclesiastes

This reading from The Book of Ecclesiastes, from the Jewish/Christian scriptures, we have found to be a very popular wedding reading  We first became familiar with this as a wedding reading at a cousin’s wedding back in the 1980’s.

Ecclesiastes, Chapter 4: 9-12

Two are better than one.
If the one falls, the other will help the fallen one.
But woe to the solitary person!
If that one should trip or fall, there is no other to help.
So also, if two sleep together, they keep each other warm.
How can one alone keep warm?
Where one alone may be overcome, two together can resist.

 

Charlie and Cheryl Cavalconte
Wedding Celebrants, Ceremony Writers and Consultants

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“Enough” author unknown.

Our initial encounter with this poem was from a family who used it as a blessing during a naming ceremony for a child and not during a wedding ceremony. This certainly is a great reading for a naming ceremony. However, we have found the poem “Enough” very appropriate to be used during a wedding ceremony for either a reading or a blessing.

ENOUGH

I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright
no matter how gray the day may appear.
I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun even more.
I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive and everlasting.
I wish you enough pain so that even the smallest joys of life appear bigger.
I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.
I wish you enough loss to appreciate all you possess.
I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye

 

Charlie and Cheryl Cavalconte
We hope you have enjoyed your visit.
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Why no images on our blog? We feel the words you share with each other during your wedding ceremony are some of the most important words you will ever share with each other.

How Do I Love Thee? (Sonnet 43)

As I look over the many wonderful readings and thoughts on our blog, I see somehow we have not included this classic. Each time I read this piece or hear it used during the celebration of a wedding, I deeply feel the intimacy of each line, and the connection  warmth, and passion, between two lovers. Elizabeth Barrett Browning (1806-1861) has made the answer to this simple, yet so profoundly moving question a classic.  However, have you ever written out the answer to THE question yourself? Here is a suggestion for a warm and intimate date night with your partner: write out the answer to the question: “How Do I Love Thee?”  I am sure you will joyfully celebrate the answer seeing the beautiful depth and intimacy you share. Enjoy the celebration of your love.

How Do I Love Thee? (Sonnet 43)

How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of being and ideal grace.
I love thee to the level of every day’s
Most quiet need, by sun and candle-light.
I love thee freely, as men strive for right.
I love thee purely, as they turn from praise.
I love thee with the passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood’s faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints. I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life; and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death.

 

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Charlie and Cheryl Cavalconte
Wedding Celebrants, Ceremony Writers and Consultants
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We are extremely pleased to have Caitlin Nash, MPH, RD, LDN join us to help prepare you and your body for the big day.Cait is a Personal Trainer, Registered Dietician & Beachboy Coach.
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Why no images on our blog? We feel the words you share with each other during your wedding ceremony are some of the most important words you will ever share with each other.

Another Valentine- Wendy Cope

We have been wandering around looking for love poems to celebrate Valentine’s Week. There are hundred, in not thousands of poems and couplets, written across the centuries and woven deeply into each culture, some flowery, others sugary, many sad. In Wendy Cope’s “Another Valentine” we find a wonderfully refreshing, mature, poem that is realistic, sure and speaks of a deep and mature love. While feeling the obligation to celebrate the date on the calendar that declares “we are to be loving and romantic”, the depth and spirit of their love shines abundantly clear.

“Today we are obliged to be romantic
And think of yet another valentine.
We know the rules and we are both pedantic:
Today’s the day we have to be romantic.
Our love is old and sure, not new and frantic.
You know I’m yours and I know you are mine.
And saying that has made me feel romantic,
My dearest love, my darling valentine.”

 

Charlie and Cheryl Cavalconte
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Why no images in this blog? We feel the words you share with each other during your wedding ceremony are some of the most important words you will ever share with each other.

A Love Essay Attributed to Carl Sandburg

This “A Love Essay” is attributed to Carl Sandburg. We feel his essay is a wonderful reflection to share as we begin the Valentine’s Day weekend. The essay captures a level of maturity, depth, a willingness to grow, patiences to be with, and an excitement about, the possibilities love provides all the while opening our lives up further to be with each other.

“I love you for what you are, but I love you yet more for what you are going to be. I love you not so much for your realities as for your ideals. I pray for your desires that they may be great, rather than for your satisfactions, which may be so hazardously little. A satisfied flower is one whose petals are about to fall. The most beautiful rose is one hardly more than a bud wherein the pangs and ecstasies of desires are working for larger and finer growth. Not always shall you be what you are now. You are going forward toward something great. I am on the way with you and therefore I love you.”

These beautiful words from Sandburg’s essay also remind us of a huge sign hanging in a casino. We hear about the sign a longtime ago and how it captures the essence of what it takes to be in a quality relationship: “YOU MUST BE PRESENT TO WIN” 

May you and your love have a beautiful weekend for love’s celebration.

 

Charlie and Cheryl Cavalconte

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Why no images in this blog? We feel the words you share with each other during your wedding ceremony are some of the most important words you will ever share with each other.

Vows: “When I’m Sixty-Four”

Yup, Paul McCartney’s wonderful song, “When I’m Sixty-Four” is a great song/ poem to celebrate Valentine’s Day and  a wonderful meditation to help you prepare to write marriage vows. Classic lines, wonderful images, beautiful sentiments, life, love and the fullness of relationships. “When I’m Sixty-Four” is on the ‘Sgt. Pepper’s Lonely Hearts Club Band’ album.

“When I’m Sixty-Four”

When I get older losing my hair
Many years from now
Will you still be sending me a valentine
Birthday greetings, bottle of wine?
If I’d been out till quarter to three
Would you lock the door?
Will you still need me, will you still feed me
When I’m sixty-four?

You’ll be older too
And if you say the word
I could stay with you

I could be handy, mending a fuse
When your lights have gone
You can knit a sweater by the fireside
Sunday mornings go for a ride
Doing the garden, digging the weeds
Who could ask for more?
Will you still need me, will you still feed me
When I’m sixty-four?

Every summer we can rent a cottage in the Isle of Wight
If it’s not too dear
We shall scrimp and save
Grandchildren on your knee
Vera, Chuck & Dave

Send me a postcard, drop me a line
Stating point of view
Indicate precisely what you mean to say
Yours sincerely, wasting away
Give me your answer, fill in a form
Mine for evermore
Will you still need me, will you still feed me
When I’m sixty-four?

Ah, now, aren’t they wonderful thoughts for a Valentine’s Day Week?

Charlie and Cheryl Cavalconte

We hope you have enjoyed your visit.
Please like us and share and visit our other sites to help prepare for the big day.
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We are extremely pleased to have Caitlin Nash, MPH, RD, LDN join us to help prepare you and your body for the big day. Cait is a Personal Trainer, Registered Dietician & Beachboy Coach.
Please visit her exciting websites. Let her help you become a healthier you:
Www.shakeology.com/caitRD
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Why no images in this blog? We feel the words you share with each other during your wedding ceremony are some of the most important words you will ever share with each other.